Dark Reality of valentine or Love marriages :
Firstly let’s know about the history of valentine’s day : It was the story of Saint valentine 
who fight against the Emperor Claudius II’s
decree banning marriages for young men, as the emperor believed that unmarried soldiers were more effective. Saint Valentine continued to perform marriages for young couples in secret. When his actions were discovered, he was imprisoned and later executed on February 14th. Before his death, Saint Valentine reportedly wrote a letter to the daughter of his jailer, signing it “From your Valentine,” which is believed to be the origin of the Valentine’s Day card tradition.
We all are celebrating it in the memory of saint valentine but today here is the dark reality of Valentine’s day:
- In Recent times The Supreme Court of India has asserted that love marriages were the leading cause of most divorces in the country. according to bar and bench Most divorces are arising from love marriages only,
- Surveys reveal that more than 50% of such marriages fail, with most of them ending in divorces. but here is a gap we have 50% success rate also but at the other side in arrange marriage the success rate is above the 80%.
It means that cultural marriages or arrange marriages have better stability or better endings but love marriages have not.
Now A question comes to the mind that what could be the cause of so much divorce in love marriage.
The answer is here : ‘love marriage’ is a beautiful name for a union which is not natural . A union that arises out of initial physical attraction. But all that glitters is not gold, as is revealed to such people after marriage, where one has to face reality. and some time the reality is harsh .you didn’t get what you have been fascinated before the marriage . but every time the cause is not same . sometimes you were manipulated by the society or family so before reaching on some conclusion always talk to your partner , there would be a different perception or situation .
Here’s a brief overview of Valentine’s Week and its associated days:
- Rose Day (February 7th): Rose Day marks the beginning of Valentine’s Week. It’s a day when people express their love and affection by exchanging roses, particularly red ones, which symbolize love and passion.
- Propose Day (February 8th): On this day, individuals take the opportunity to express their romantic feelings to their loved ones. It’s common for people to propose marriage or confess their love on this day.
- Chocolate Day (February 9th): Chocolate Day celebrates the sweetness of love. It’s customary to exchange chocolates with loved ones as a symbol of affection and appreciation.
- Teddy Day (February 10th): Teddy Day is all about giving and receiving teddy bears as gifts. These soft toys are often associated with comfort and warmth, making them popular gifts for expressing love and care.
- Promise Day (February 11th): Promise Day is a day for making commitments and promises to your partner. These promises can range from small gestures of love and support to lifelong commitments.
- Hug Day (February 12th): Hug Day encourages people to embrace their loved ones warmly. Hugging is seen as a way to express care, comfort, and affection.
- Kiss Day (February 13th): Kiss Day is a day dedicated to expressing intimacy and love through kisses. It’s an opportunity for couples to share romantic moments and deepen their bond.
- Valentine’s Day (February 14th):
Valentine’s Day is the culmination of Valentine’s Week. It’s a day when people celebrate love and romance by exchanging gifts, cards, and spending quality time with their partners.
While the specific traditions and customs associated with Valentine’s Week may vary from culture to culture and from person to person, the overarching theme remains the celebration of love and affection.
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